Lesbian visibility week- The Pleasure Principle: Unveiling the Secrets of Lesbian Sex

April 22, 2024

This week is lesbian visibility week and we want you to know that we see you, we hear you and we celebrate you. Welcome to the seductive odyssey through the sultry world of lesbian erotica, where we explore every touch, taste and technique that enhances women’s pleasure.

The 10 Erogenous zones

Neck: The neck is a highly erogenous zone due to its sensitivity to light touch and kisses. Nuzzling, kissing, and gentle biting along the neck and collarbone can send shivers down the spine and enhance arousal.
Lips and Mouth: Kissing and oral stimulation of the lips and mouth can be incredibly erotic for many women. Soft, sensual kisses, gentle nibbles, and exploring with the tongue can all contribute to arousal.
Ears: The ears are highly sensitive due to the abundance of nerve endings. Whispering softly, nibbling, or gently blowing air can be incredibly erotic.
Inner Wrist and Forearms: The inner wrist and forearms are lesser-known erogenous zones that can be surprisingly sensitive to touch. Gentle strokes, kisses, or even light nibbles can be highly arousing.
Nipples and Breasts: The nipples and surrounding breast tissue are highly sensitive erogenous zones for many women. Gentle caresses, kisses, licking, and light nibbling can evoke pleasurable sensations. Some women can even achieve orgasm through nipple stimulation alone.
Lower Back: The lower back is an often-overlooked erogenous zone that can be highly sensitive to touch. Gentle caresses or massages in this area can be incredibly arousing.
Inner Thighs: The inner thighs are packed with nerve endings and can be incredibly sensitive to touch. Teasing and kissing this area can build anticipation and heighten arousal.
Buttocks: The buttocks are packed with nerve endings and can be highly sensitive to touch and stimulation. Light caresses, spanks, or gentle massages can evoke pleasurable sensations.
Clitoris: Often considered the primary pleasure centre for many women, the clitoris contains thousands of nerve endings and is highly sensitive to touch. Direct stimulation, either through manual manipulation, oral sex, or with vibrators, can lead to intense arousal and orgasm.
G-Spot: Located on the anterior wall of the vagina, about 1-2 inches inside, the G-spot is an area of spongy tissue that, when stimulated, can lead to powerful orgasms for some women. Techniques such as the "come hither" motion with fingers or specific sex positions can target this area.

Oral sex - The Figure 8

There are so many different techniques to stimulating the vulva that it’s impossible to put them all here, plus, we all like different things so there’s no way we can stick to the same stimulation and it work for every vulva. So let’s focus on a circular tongue motion for pleasing that pussy.

Although this technique is called the figure 8, we want to constantly be asking her what is feeling good and what is not. So by all means, start with a figure 8 motion with the tongue. The clitoris and vulva are such big areas of pleasure that we want to be stimulating as much of it as possible to work out what feels good. Consider your pressure and location too. Some women have a clitoral hood that covers the clitoris completely (the part on the outside of the vulva of course!), so consider lifting her hood by gently placing and pulling the pubic area with your palm. This can help to expose more super sensitive nerve endings!

Most women will not want direct stimulation to the exposed clitoris straight away so you could experiment with gentle strokes of circular motion around and on the clitoral hood before introducing gentle glides onto the exposed clitoris.

Mix it up by introducing more circular motions with your other hand or a sex toy, stimulating around the vaginal hole or the perineum and anus. Experiment with different flavoured and textured lubricants here too!

Tribbing

Tribbing is the art of rubbing clit on clit. Also known as scissoring. Experiment with different positions to work out what feels great for you both. You could even experiment with clit on thigh here- whatever feels good for you! Throw in some eye contact, dirty talk, boob and bum caressing, and loads of lubricant and it’s an orgasmic night for two (or more) vulvas!

If you’re into anal play then why not play while you rub? The pleasure is all yours!